Thought of the day #3
Here a simple answer to it:
"The happiest people is not those that have the best of everything, but those that make the best of everything that they have"
In other word, be grateful with what you have, and maximize the potential of what you have. Even in Islam also Muslims are urged to be grateful and thankful to Allah for all the bounties and strive their best with what they have.
Think about it......
A piece of advice
There are two things that we always take it for granted and never pay good intention to it. Those things namely communication and punctuality. People always ignore the importance of good communication with others. Through good communication we can build good relationship with others and creating a conducive living environment. Communication is a bridge the connect ourselves to others. If we burn down that bridge, how are we going to connect with others effectively and efficiently?
Punctuality is another thing that we normally take for granted. We always assume that others will wait for us. We never consider those people feeling. But what if we are the one in their place, what would we feel? Punctuality signifies our commitment and sense of responsibility towards certain matters. If we ignore the element of punctuality, it simple shows that we are not committed and responsible enough to that thing.
So my friends, let us change our attitude. Let improve what is good and left behind what is bad. May we be among those who will succeed and prosper insyaallah.
A person once told me:
"betulkan kebiasaan itu, dan biasakan yang betul itu"
wassalam
p/s: thank you madam martinelli for your inspirational advice, I will remember it always.
Sebaik hiasan adalah wanita solehah
Namun, jauh di sudut hati, terpalit rasa kesunyian, dambakan belaian kasih dan sayang. Lalu hadirnya Hawa melengkapi kekosongan dijiwa. Diciptakannya dari rusuk Adam, moga saling memahami membimbing ke jalan hakiki. Hadirnya Hawa mengisi kesunyian yang ada, mewarnai hayat dengan kasih dan sayang dibawah rahmat Dia yang Maha Esa.
Sesungguhnya wanita itu adalah hiasan agung di dunia ini. Namun sebaik hiasan adalah wanita yang memiliki iman dan taqwa, akhlak mulia pakaian diri, sopan santun hiasan diri, berbudi pekerti amalan sehair-hari. Sesunguhnya wanita itu mampu menggongcang iman dijiwa andai tanpa didikan yang sempurna. Wahai anak Adam, dalam mencari teman yang hakiki, pilih lah mengikut tuntutan Syari’, jangan mengikut pujukan nafsu sendiri. Pandanglah dengan mata iman dan taqwa, jangan memandang dengan mata hati yang melulu. Berwaspadalah, kerana pandangan itu adalah diantara panahan-panahan syaitan. Sesungguhnya dinikahi wanita itu kerana empat perkara: kerana kecantikannya, kerana keturunannya, kerana hartanya, kerana agamanya. Pilihlah kerana agama kerana itu pasti menguntungkan.
Jika ingin teman secekal Hajar,
Jadilah setabah Nadi Ibrahim,
Jika ingin didamping secantik Zulaika,
Jadilah secekal Nabi Yusuf,
Jika ingin isteri sehebat Khadijah,
Jadilah suami seperti Rasullallah,
Sesungguhnya rasa kasih dan sayang itu andai dibina atas dasar keikhlasan dihati, penuh tawakkal pada Illahi, nescaya berkekalan hingga abadi.
Sesungguhnya dunia ini adalah perhiasan semata,
Sebaik hiasan adalah wanita yang solehah,
Sebaik wanita yang solehah adalah isteri misali,
Melahir membimbing zuriat solehi,
Sebagai pewaris agama mulia lagi suci ini,
Terus membela nasib ummah ini,
Dalam mencapai kegemilangan didunia ini.
What leadership is all about?
Knowing that, a person also has know what are the virtues of a good leader. For me, the virtues are CONFIDENT.
C : confident
O : open minded
N : neutral
F : focus- mission and vision
I : independent-self reliable
D : determination-strong courage
EN : enthusiasm –high spirit
T : tolerance
p/s: all of these are base on my personal experience and knowledge. One may agree or disagree. I'm looking forward to hear any comment or suggestion.
wassalam.
Thought of the day #2
How to be a good trainer?
VIRTUES OF A TRAINER:
H : Honesty
Being a trainer, the important thing is honesty. One needs to be honest not just to him or her self, but also to others in general. Through honesty one can create trust among others.
O : Open
A trainer needs to have an open attitude which means open to others. Make your self approachable by others who want to seek your advice and consultation. Do not create barrios between your self and others.
N : Neutral
A trainer needs to be neutral. He or she must not bias to certain group or particular people. His or her ideas must be for the benefit of the society as a whole not for any personal interest. Biasness will create block which will create chaos in the management of the society.
E : Enthusiasm
A trainer must enjoy what he or she is doing as it will create confidant in one self. Through confident it will create enthusiasm to work. He of she is willing to work regardless of the challenges that he or she has to face.
S : Strength
Being a trainer one needs to have strength in three main aspects namely: physical strength, mental strength, and emotional strength.
T : Team work
The last important virtue is team work. Through team work people can achieve the impossibility. It creates bonding and mutual respect among others.
How to get people motivated?

Assalamualaikum, may you all are in good health and blessed by Allah always.
People always keep asking, how to improve the productivity of the company, how to increase the workers efficiency? How can I produce great result without making others going insane about it? The answer is you have to get them motivated in doing their jobs.
A leadership is an art of making others do something that you want it to be done because they want to do it.
Now, the problem is how to get them motivated?
Here a simple solution to it, get INSPIRED! The key to get them motivated is to get them inspired. Through inspiration, it will motivate them to work better and consequently increase the productivity. Now, the next question, what does INSPIRED means? Is it possible?
The word INSPIRED comprises of 6 elements:
- INTENTION(IN): you have to know where to begins, motivation comes from within. You can not force it upon someone. It has to comes from his/her own self. That the first thing that you have to mind set. Everything begin with the intention.
- STRENGTH(S): knows your own strength. Identify what area you are good at and improve it to be great. Focus on your strength not on your weaknesses. Develop it gradually from good to be great.
- POSITIVE(P): exercise positive reinforcement. Use positive force in daily works. This will help to stimulate them to increase their performance. It is a powerful tools to stimulate human performance. Such as show your appreciation and gratitude, like the word thank you, and sometimes praise; you look good today. People tend to neglect this though they know that this is important.
- REWARD(RE): deliver you reward. Give reward to your workers as a sign of appreciation for their efforts. Rewards is a powerful tools to make people to strive their best in their works. As the saying goes "you get what you reward". Workers tend to work better if their employee give them reward as this indicate that their efforts are not in waste. The reward could be in various form either monetary or material object. Your choice.
- DOA AND TAWAKKAL(D): At the last effort, we make doa or prayer to The Almighty Allah, may He open their hearts to be motivated. As He is the Ruler of all things in this world and hereafter, He is the all knowing. Doa also is important as in could bring spiritual and emotional balance in human life. It creates spiritual tranquility in human life.
Is it possible? YOU TELL ME!

